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      I have been journaling for years. Hear that? YEARS! It’s a hobby of mine that I picked up some time in middle school. It allows me to clear my mind, put down the day's thoughts, meditate, plan, and reflect. Journaling has become a sort of escape for me and I tend to do it at least twice daily. 

      In the mornings, I wake up and make a cup of coffee before gathering up a book and my journal. I like to read in the morning and then journal about my thoughts or whatever I’ve learned. This can last anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour, but it’s a really powerful part of my morning. I change up what I read often. Most of the time I’m reading three books at once! Whatever I read, I write about and I find it helps to retain information and to reflect on what I’ve learned.
      In the evenings, I write a journal entry before reading before bed. I like to write down the day's thoughts and experiences. I tend to write a stream of conscious monologue of whatever is taking most of my attention. This is really therapeutic and relaxing for me and I really enjoy writing for myself. 
      Journaling can be hard to get into, especially for people who aren’t exactly fond of writing. However, because of the title for this particular post, I’m going to assume that you have at least a mild interest in getting into journaling. 

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So what should you know about journaling before you begin?

Well, I want to lay out the basics in this post. I will talk about:

  1. What the benefits are to journaling every day

  2. Topics you can journal about if you’re struggling

  3. How to maintain a journaling routine

  4. How to make the journaling experience more personal and relaxing

  5. And what products I love to use when journaling/journals that really set the mood and why this matters

Before I start, I wanted to make available to you the knowledge that there are a number of places to purchase journaling materials to help you become invested in your journaling routine. Minted is one such place for quality journaling products and is worth looking into!

So, what are the benefits to journaling? 

It helps you clear your mind
Journaling is a great way to jot down all of your thoughts and free up what I like to call “brain space.” During the day (especially right when we wake up and right before we go to sleep) our brain is processing thousands of thoughts. The important ones roll over in our minds continuously until we either act upon them or strategically forget them. Journaling can help ease your conscious as you can clear out some of that “clutter” to allow yourself to live more presently.
It allows you to reflect on your life
  • This is the number one reason why I journal. No lie, the majority of my journal is written in diary fashion. I love reflecting on the day's events at night and recalling what made me happy, sad, angry, scared, or excited. It’s super therapeutic and enjoyable to look back on. It also makes spotting trends in my life a heck of a lot easier.

It makes you a better writer!
  • If for no other reason than this, please journal because it improves your writing ability. I hope I don’t have to go too into depth on this one. It feels like every writer, author, journal post, and blogger preach the sentiment that “if you want to become a better writer, then you have to write!”

It feels productive!
  • This is a BIG motivator for me! I love cranking out journal entries throughout the day because it feels super productive. I enjoy writing story starts, blog post entries/ideas, and writing down business goals. Each time I do so, I feel as if I’ve accomplished something. That, in turn, motivates me to do more. I have found that the more I journal, the more productive I feel and the more motivated I am to engage in my projects.

I’ve found that journaling is really meditative for me.
  • I enjoy writing in my journal because writing, for me, is a grandiose coping mechanism. It calms me down and allows me to process negative thoughts. Journaling is therapeutic in nature and can be a great activity right before or after meditation.

Alright, so we discussed the benefits and I’m sure you’re convinced that this is a hobby you want to be a part of. So what kinds of things should you write?

Here’s a list to help you get started:
  • Write about the day’s events
  • Write a description of a friend or loved one (this is one of my favorite activities and is super great for character building!)
  • Write a memory
  • Write a series of memories surrounding an object or a place (ex. Every time you’ve been to the fairgrounds, grocery store setting, times you’ve eaten ice cream etc.)
  • Write out meditations
  • Write out affirmations
  • Write a funny story
  • Write a sad story
  • Try out some poetry
  • Write fiction
  • Write nonfiction
  • Write a book review
  • Write a book analysis
  • Write a scene taking your attention
  • Write about something you want to accomplish
  • Write a list of words you love

  • Copy down some of your favorite quotes or song lyrics
  • Write a song
  • Write a story about a secret

Honestly, the list is endless. I’ve found that it’s best to write about what’s taking your attention at the moment.

Now that you have your topics, you’ll be good for a few days maybe even a week! But how do you keep at it? How do you establish a routine?

     The important thing is to try to get into the habit of writing at least once or twice a day. Set an alarm if you can to help you keep at it. As you go on, you’ll discover more and more topics that take your attention and finding something to write about will come easier than you think. The hardest part really is just establishing the routine. Typically after a month of doing something, the routine sets in and it becomes easier to maintain.

A great way to implement journaling in your routine is to jot down journaling times and plans in a planner. Erin Condren's site offers a number of planner options, many which are amazing for journaling routines! Erin Condren also offers a variety of notebooks and journals too which are perfect for when you pick up this amazing habit/hobby! 

How can you make the journaling process more inviting?
      I’ve found that it helps to create a space where you want to write. Find a place where you can sit comfortably and which has decent lighting. Near a window is great! Though, it’s okay if this isn’t possible for you. Make sure the space is quiet so you won’t be interrupted. Blankets and pillows add comfort but I do NOT suggest you journal in bed (that can be distracting. Also, your brain associates actions with places). I like to light candles and play soft music in the background during my nightly journaling, But this might be a little too stimulating and distracting for some people.

Why does having the right journal matter?
       Oh boy. This one is widely discussed in writing groups. Having the “right” journal makes the ENTIRE difference. For example, when I first started college, my journal was an ordinary composition book. It was not the easiest to write in as the pages could hardly ever lay flat, it was a bit awkward to hold and there weren’t many pages. Now, it wasn’t the worst, but I noticed a BIG difference in my writing when I got a journal that was enjoyable to write in.
       I like my journals to be bound not wired (as the wire part often gets in the way). I prefer faux leather bound ones as they are more pliable. I like lined paper (even if I don’t always stay on the line) and I like thick pages (because I ALWAYS use a pen when I write--speaking of which, the pen matters too!). I also prefer larger bound books than smaller ones, though if it feels right and satisfies all of my other needs, I’ve found that I can settle with a smaller journal.

Minted offers amazing journals in their paperie section! I'm in love with a number of their notebooks and prints. They're a great brand for bullet journaling, ordinary journaling, and scrapbooking.

Erin Condren (as I mentioned above) is also another great place for quality notebooks and journals!

And there you have it! These are the basics to journaling! I hope this blog post was helpful in one way or another. If you’re still not convinced that journaling is for you, do some more research! I highly encourage you to keep looking around for ideas because this practice is so amazing. If i can’t convince you, I hope someone else can!



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Also, check out my poetry book, The Lights are on but Nobody’s Home, available now on amazon for $6.99!

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 I want to make this intro brief. So, for many of my readers, I know that second semester is starting or has already begun. Nevertheless, I wanted to promote these ideas/tips/tricks that I learned as a college freshman that I think will be beneficial to a TON of college students.


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Best college tips I’ve learned after my first year
  1. Group your classes if you can. You won’t want to go back to class if you have too much time between them.
  2. Don’t schedule classes at 8am unless you have no other choice. You may have been able to survive early mornings through high school, but you’re an adult now and are responsible for getting yourself to class. 
  3. Don’t schedule late classes. 
  4. GO TO CLASS! You are paying for this.
  5. Bring a reusable water bottle with you EVERYWHERE. All the time.
  6. Keep a charger on you at all times.
  7. Pack snacks or pack your lunch. If you don’t have a meal plan at school (say you’re living off campus) it will save you so much time and money to pack your lunch and pack snacks along side it. Even  if you’re on a meal plan, pack snacks. You will get hungry at some point.
  8. Don’t wear your lanyard around your neck.
  9. Set aside time for homework.
  10. Speaking of homework, don’t slack on any assignments. There are fewer assignments than when you were in highschool. This means that they are worth more to your grade. Don’t miss any.
  11. If you work a part time job while in college, don’t overwork yourself.
  12. If you become a broke college student, shop for discounts on food. Walmart is really cheap if there is one near you. Target is also cheap (they accept price matches from other places (including Walmart) and they offer a number of coupons and discounts through their app. Don’t shop at CVS, 7-eleven, or Walgreens, their prices are raised since they are smaller stores.
  13. Here’s a list of food to buy under $20 if you’re broke: canned veggies, tomato soup, oatmeal, bananas, ramen (cliche but it works), canned fruit, fruit (some fruits sell for 50 cents or less, bread, milk, eggs. 
  14. While we’re still on food, buy generic stuff. It has the same ingredients and is much cheaper.
  15. If you are broke, sell your plasma, even an extra $50 can help.

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  1. Write up a roommate agreement if you have roommates.
  2. Don’t eat out at restaurants all the time.
  3. Save your coins for laundry.
  4. Keep aspirin in your backpack.
  5. Keep your homework and classwork organized by class.
  6. Make sure your laptop is charged before you bring it to class or keep the charger in your bag.
  7. Make sure (If you go off to college) to pack for any sort of weather: pack an umbrella and rain jacket, thick socks and snow boots, shorts and sandals. You never know how the weather will be.
  8. Speaking off, check the weather channel/app for the days weather before leaving for class.
  9. Get to know your professors.
  10. Keep applying for scholarships and grants throughout your college career.
  11. Keep highlighters and post it notes on you.
  12. Keep your phone charged and on you at all times.
  13. Find a quiet place to study between classes
  14. Find a microwave on campus
  15. Find a place to nap on campus
  16. Go to bed with at least 8 hours between the time you sleep to the time you wake. It is possible.
  17. Triple check your alarms.
  18. Buy your books through places like Chegg.com. You will save so much money.
  19. Don’t buy your books new. Rent them used. 
  20. Make time for yourself outside of school and work.
  21. Take advantage of free things/benefits of being a student: discounted amazon prime, Spotify/hulu bundle, discounted movie tickets, museum tickets, event tickets in general. 
  22. Go to events organized by your school
  23. Speak with your advisors twice per semester.
  24. Speak with financial aid each semester.
  25. Participate in class.
  26. Don’t do homework in bed.
  27. Get to know your campus.
  28. Keep a stapler in your backpack.
  29. Have tupperware in your dorm/apartment.
  30. Use mendeley for research papers

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  1. Fill out the AOTC on your taxes to get an extra $1000 back just for being a college student 
  2. Utilize planners and calendars!
  3. Visit/call your family often if you don’t live with them.
  4. Save all of your loose change (it adds up and you can use it for anything). 
  5. HAVE FUN!

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Feel free to leave a comment below and let me know any good tips you’ve learned while in college!

You can also email me with questions or concerns you may have at info.amelia.wilson@gmail.com

Also, check out my poetry book, The Lights are on but Nobody’s Home, available now on amazon for $9.99!


Disclaimer: All of the views and opinions in this post are solely my own and are not sponsored.


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      It feels like it has been decades since my last blog post. I used to post so frequently and intentionally. To be honest, I still have a number of blog post ideas in the archives, some are even written, half-written, or brainstormed. However, I haven’t posted them, or worked hard enough to get one post ready.

Why?

Simple. I’ve been too busy.

     Now, I want to forewarn you that what I’m about to say can come across as hypocritical, but really, it’s not that I’ve been “busy” necessarily as it’s been that I’ve dedicated my energy to other tasks.

That’s the real problem.

      I started my first semester of college this past August and it’s been such a wild ride. High School was never this hard nor this easy. In high school, you have to go to classes five days out of the week on a schedule that you didn’t make yourself. You have homework every night, and school becomes your life as it takes up 35 hours of the week. With college, you get to choose your schedule, only have to attend classes maybe fifteen hours a week, don’t have homework every night, and have more time to invest in other things.

Sounds great right?

      The downside—things people don’t often mention—is that though the work is easier (in my opinion), and consumes less time, you still have to worry about money, actually going to class, the responsibility of freedom, and the consequences of only having a few class sessions/assignments that make up your grade.
      Look, I love college. Don’t get me wrong. But college + work + living on my own, is difficult to juggle.
      Suddenly, my free time has been devoted to watching Netflix and YouTube or sleeping. 

So, I stopped posting on my blog.

     Even worse, recently, I stopped posting on my podcast and on Instagram altogether. Life isn’t busy, it’s just that I don’t know how to manage my time and I’m too busy dedicating my energy to work and school and chores.
      But this blog post isn’t called “how to balance life” no, it’s called “college stumped my creativity.”
     I don’t want to blame college for taking away my creative innovative-ness, however, it has certainly shifted my priorities, resulting in a lack of creative expression...which is strange because I. GO. TO. AN. ART. SCHOOL.
     If I’m an art school student and I’m struggling with a lack of creativity due to college, then you know it’s not just the system but something deeper.
     I’ll be honest, school hasn’t put a damper on my creativity “technically.” In fact, I write almost every day and I LOVE it! Rather than writing blog posts though, I write fiction stories, nonfiction essays, poetry, observations, speeches, etc.      Some of it has actually turned into really inspiring and usable work! 
     It’s just that I put more of my attention on my assignment writing, and less on my blog and podcast.
     My writing has definitely changed since the beginning of the semester, and I’m thankful for that. 
     At some point, I want to continue the blog and podcast. I’ve made some useless efforts at reigniting my creative spark for these passion projects. I’ve reached out to my readers asking for blog topic suggestions. And I’ve aimlessly written a number of posts that remain un-postable for the time being.

But the kicker is that college has turned my attention towards work and away from hobby. 

College doesn’t “stump” creativity, it just moves it. 

     My work is certainly creative! I’ve written a number of short stories that hold some potential. But all this writing and work and adulting has pushed me away from hobbies. 

     I think, especially around this time of year when students are coming to a close with their semester, they feel the weight of wanting to do something for themselves but being too tired to do it. This is the make it or break it part of the semester. This is when hard work needs to kick in. I see a lot of people struggling with the seasonal depression and lack of will to achieve anything. And I understand it. 

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As easy as it is for me to blame college, it just isn’t true. 

     We all feel this. This...writer's block...lack of creativity...artistic dysfunction...seasonal depression...whatever you want to call it. People who work forty hours a week feel it. Kids in school feel it. College students feel it. 

Tis the season to devote your energy to everything except the things you want to right?

     Sadly, there isn’t really a solution. I’ll have other posts in the future (I hope) that will dive into depression, fear of failure, lack of creativity, ect. For now, I want to express over and over again that though it feels as if the creative well is drying up, it’s really just about focus.

What do you want to focus on?

What is worth your time and energy?

      The only solution that I have, for myself even, is try to redirect some of my focus. If I can put time and energy into my blog posts, or artistic passions, what will I gain? Will it make me happy? And if I redirect this attention, what will I have to give up? Is it worth it to give it up? 
      Life is about balance and I’ll admit that I’m still trying to figure it out.
      
      This post wasn’t like my normal ones. This, to me, felt more like a rant but I hope it was slightly inspirational. In the end, we are the masters of our own fate, the creators of our own reality and it is up to us to prioritize the things that make us feel most alive.




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Feel free to leave a comment below!

You can also email me with questions or concerns you may have at info.amelia.wilson@gmail.com

Also, check out my poetry book, The Lights are on but Nobody’s Home, available now on amazon for $9.99!

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